I cant imagine how you must have felt not being able to see her for so long, the more i think about it the more upset i get, i was separated from my DD for a few hours as i had a bleed after she was born and i have found that hard to deal with, your story really puts that in to perspective!
Thank you for sharing, it must be hard to tell it all in such detail and re-live it all again.
big hugs to you, your hubby and your beautiful girl!!