Hi Corelly,

We are in the exact same boat. We have just started trying to conceive number 3 after alot of deliberation. We always wanted 3, but with Isabelle we gave it ALOT of thought and the what if's. We really want another one, but scared to be going through all this again. We have yet to get to the end of our treatment, which also concerns me, but I am also worried with how long it will take to fall pregnant. Ahhhh!!!!

We have been told that our DD's case is hereditary. She also wasn't breech or have any of the other risk factors besides girl. My hubby has one great aunt who had a hip replacement in mid 60's but not sure what for. Our first born girl was totally fine and was also x-rayed when our baby was diagnosed to rule out anything wrong with her hips and hers are perfect. Whilst it is back to front with us, we have one child with it and one child without.

I feel like it is a bit like russian roulette as to what will happen.

All the very best to you and your partner with this hard decision.

Jackie