Dee, thats what happened with me at first, was a paed saying there was nothing wrong. I felt dismissed as well. Our close friend is getting a PhD atm in OT and specialising in developmental behaviour. I asked her about Matilda's "quirky" behaviour and if there was anything I could do to help her prepare for school & she said she's been watching Matilda for a while now & is the one who recommended I look into it.