Hello Everybody,

I feel kinda silly posting this but I need to know if I should be concerned about DD.

Sara is nearly 3yo and is extremely bright. She has reached milestones way ahead of time. She speaks 2 languages, she dances, plays well with other kids, etc but she has particular ways of doing things and if you muck with her system then all hell breaks lose.

For instance if I help her off the toilet she'll scream to the point of hyperventilation, until I let her get back on and get off her self. Same for getting in and out of the bath, on or off her bed. She won't let me dress her. There are other little things but you get the picture. My mum has OCD and I concerned that Sara may have some of her traits.

Is this normal 3yo behaviour? What should I do/look for?