I have watched my dear friend Mel and her beautiful boy who has aspergers flip like a coin for 7 years. Its a really chaotic condition which has its moments. Some months you wonder if the child we know is really in there anymore. Then for no apparent reason he comes back. I am not an expert I only know what I have learnt through my friend. I know he is on the most severe level 5 and that there are levels 1 - 5 (varying degrees of severity) and early diagnosis is imperative. Not only for the child but for mum and dad too. Just to know what you are dealing with and what to expect and importantly support. Please dont hesitate to get a proper diagnosis. You will have trouble just like Mel did she finally had a correct diagnosis after 6 years. He was constantly misdiagnosed as autism and ADHD etc etc. If you feel something is not right keep on the Dr.
Good Luck
K