Thanx C, I guess I haven't done anything about it because i am waiting for her to grow out of it, but it seems to be getting worse. And I guess I feel that if I take her to someone she will be as good as gold and all the problems that I explain will be normal and I will feel silly... KWIM?
The first time I took Yasin to see the speechy about his stutter he was having a good day and I thought that she would send me on my way but she believed me. I think that most professionals who work with kids know that they have good and bad days but they also know that parents don't come and see them unless the bad days are outweighing the good.
i think its better to be told there is nothing wrong and feel silly than to be told years down the track that there is something wrong and wish you had done something sooner.... Hugs that your having a challenging time.
Listen to your head babe.....if you think something is'nt right then take the steps. On the other hand, she might just be your wild child in the making
It's hard to say, but maybe having 3 older sisters it's her way of getting attention I don't know. My little brother used to be like that when he was young- he's 20 now and fine. But it is hard to say I guess, plus no harm in getting her seen to just to make sure.
Given you have other older kids, I think you've probably got good instincts about what's what's broadly 'normal'. I'm not saying there's anything going on cause I don't know. It could just be a phase or a behavioural response that she will grow out of but the fact that you're 'walking on eggshells' with her is a good indicator that her behaviour is pretty extreme. I think she needs an assessment. If for no other reason than you get another opinion and some peace of mind and maybe some new strategies to try. If there is something more than a 'phase' going on, early intervention now (or soon) will really make a difference in the long run.
i dont know if its different with younger kids, but with bipolar I think the manic and depressive episode last weeks at a time.
Go have a talk with your GP or paed about your DDs behaviour if you are worried. GL.
Have the eposodes been more extreme since O was born? Perhaps shes just trying to assert herself more and get the attension as she knows your busy? But like the other ladies have said if you are worried then definately seek another opinion from a GP. Mummies instincts are something to be listened to.
Fingers crossed it is just a phase
xox
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