but seriously (and I am about Spotlight, I have to rearrange things) are you a teacher or in early childhood something or other? I remember you told me once.

My Paed/Psych team told me about the same for DS, could be PDD-NOS but in any case the help you can access for the funding helps no matter what.
Since DS started school it changed many things for me, but I believe in the plasticity of the brain and that's keeping me going right now.