Hang in there and keep offering. a few things from my perspective - yep outings are a no go here, it's no fun cause I can't relax so I stopped going. Also people coming to my house - sometimes good and sometimes not. If she is stressed and her house isn't perfect it might cause more stress. Also for a long time there... I hate to say it but I was embarrassed for DS. Also I still won't allow anyone else to look after DS while I go out. DH has just gotten up the confidence to look after him without making me feel like a piece of poop when I get home.

Stay in touch, text, emails etc. I love these as I can deal with them when I get some peace. I hate phone calls as DS talks incessently and just follows me around talk talk talking and I can't concentrate.