Thanks Black Duckies. I am hoping so much that she is clear. I thought for a while that at least knowing would be helpful. It's just such a difficult road for her if she has it... I need to get my head right about it and it's a bit scattered really.

I personally believe that we are all just perfect and for me she is perfect. However, as a mother I want for her to have a full life. I need to adjust my definition of what a full life is...

Thankyou Kate for all your help.