Thanks ~ Kim ~ the poor little thing starts chemo today, apparently it's quite large and WAY too big to remove and they have been told she could be in hospital for months.
At the moment they have been told she will def loose i think the left part of the kidney and she will be having a drain put in.

I just don't know what to say to them, i mean does she get through this and live a happy healthy life for another 60+yrs or does she get through it and live another 5??

It's so sad, i don't know how some people have the strength to work with these poor children and families... you must have the most amazing strength...