Thanks so much everyone, tried to give her a bit of carrot tonight and she gummed a little but was overtired and just wanted to sit on mummy, so i made her some rice cereal and spooned it to her on my knee b/w mouthfuls myself and she took a bit.. might try some carrot or something at lunch time and see how she goes.
I think she def WANTS food, she tries to steal mine, hopefully if i can get some solids into her she will be back to her normal happy self.