Miss B is not the best with her spoon either! and drives me nuts! she tends to just "dunk" her spoon into whatever it is she is eating! and than when she does "scoop" we are trying to teach her to "scoop" she tips it upside down before it gets in her mouth! she is good with a fork! im thinking of trying those knife, spoon and fork set with the grooves in them - hopefully that will help!