I think - like just about everything so far - I was getting a bit stressed about "doing it right".
There's a right way to do things? Nooooo

We just give the baby whatever we're having, have since he was about 7 months. For a while he was getting weetbix if we had a particularly baby-unfriendly meal, but don't do that anymore. He'll happily eat pasta, chops, roast, stew, steamed veggies, anything really. Unfortunately a LOT of what he eats is what the toddler leaves lying around the house (she's very messy and tends to leave plates of food in the middle of the loungeroom floor) so he might have jam on toast, leftover sausages, leftover schnitzels, meusli bars (the toasted oats go in one end and out the other unchanged), baked beans, raw apples, those little fruit bars, biscuits, crackers, cheese of varying kinds, and ... peanuts.

I do have one more question though - peanut butter.
I know "no peanuts" because of the choking hazard, but can she have peanut butter? We have no history of peanut allergies. And if so, is crunchy OK (are the pieces small enough?) or should it be smooth?
Yes, peanuts. Not peanut butter, just peanuts. Toddler eats them, drops some, he follows her and hoovers them up. I keep getting into the situation where I go to breastfeed him, and he won't suck if there's something in his mouth. So I have to remove the peanuts/alfoil/contact/stickers/lego/plastic animals/beetles/gravel/leaves/paper from his mouth first. Doesn't matter how much I pick stuff up off the floor, he finds things and in the mouth they go. And the toddler is happy to serve him a tea-set bowl of peanuts and assorted choking hazards because she *knows* he'll pick them up and put them in his mouth and she thinks its a great game.

Never had this issue with baby #2 because there was no toddler in the house. Babies are tougher than you think they are, apparently ...