It's hard not to stress isn't it? I started BLS with DS when he was 6 months but he didn't really take to it until about 9.5 months. He would eat the odd bit of toast or cruskits but wasn't interested in much else. I had the MCHN and my mum on my back about it, neither understood the concept and we're always telling me he should be on 3 solid meals by now. He was a little booby fiend too, still feeding every 2 hrs so I knew he was getting what he needed. When he started crawling a monster appetite suddenly appeared!

She will eat when she's ready. Just keep offering it to her. I think the only reason to be concerned would be if she wasn't getting a lot of breastmilk but sounds like she is Do you eat with her?
DS now eats more than I do for breakfast lol!