SJ, I found that happened at the same age too. Really they shouldn't be cutting back milk just yet. I cut back on the solids a little bit and found he started drinking more again. And slept better again! Could be worth a try for you!

Gemini, I am so glad you've joined in here. I think you will find it a much better approach for you. I found that I did make things pretty soft at first, but not for very long. Pretty soon he was just having things cooked the same way as us (probably within a month?). But then you do tend to be more confident (and more time strapped LOL!!) with a subsequent child!

As for your other question, I would still be cautious about allergy foods. I was. I waited until the recommended age for everything. Although meat is one that no-one much agrees on, and I think he had that from about 7 1/2 or 8 months.