Thanks Ginger, great suggestion - I like it.

Im reading as I await everyone's or at least i hope i get lots of suggestions - and what do people think of Maximilian and Max now that I am thinking?

is it too old, crappy, long, boring not funky - my first child is ultra cool, dark or (brown) skinned, curly haired, dark, dark eyes.....and a real man's man.......hence my problem trying to match him and his name???

thoughts? suggestions? im open to whatever you've got!