Another one that thinks Emlyn is quite feminine, however, it doesnt matter what i think at all

If you both love names on the 2nd list thats been ruled out, i say just go for it. I dont know the reasons they have been ruled out but unless its because a sibling has already used the name i would seriously consider using them if i loved them as much as it sounds like you do.

Other suggestions are:

Roman
Oliver
Luca
Isaac
Xavier