Cadence is definately a girls name for me
I used to teach a Cadence, & she was very girly girl..... and in terms of music as well, a cadence is a 'Perfect end piece' (of a song or section of a song)... like the 'A - Men' in a hymn... just in case you were interested!

Luke had a little boy Cade in his soccer team a few years back - he was a cute kid, very much a boy, so that feels masculine for me, too

Lots of choices you guys have got happening - OMG DH & I would have killed each other with that much choice

I guess one good thing about 7+yrs of TTC is that there was many years to sift through ideas

Whatever you pick will be perfect