I lost my first baby at 10 (almost 11) weeks (also a missed miscarriage). We had the name Matthew picked out. (no girl's names at that point).

Never thought of it for the 2nd baby. Then for the 3rd baby, we liked Zara or Matthew for ages. But at 8mths I changed my mind and liked Ronan.

Somehow Matthew was just meant to be for my first little angel.

It is totally your call though and how you feel that counts.