I did warn you this was coming!

We can't use Ian as a middle name as it's a BIL's name and I'm determined not to use any family names at all. I suspect that rules out any of the XIM names for boys as I can't think of any other decent boys names that DH would agree to starting with an I.

Close friends have also taken Tim and Tom, and if we go for Jim from James - well, that's another BIL's middle name.

Kim from Kimberley wouldn't be too bad, I'm just not a big fan - comes down to one of the pitfalls of being a teacher.

BW