Can you use Isabelle anyway? How much does it matter if it's you cousin's child's 2nd name?

Would he/you like any of these first names - they're all quite girly:
Ruby, Holly, Phoebe, Imogen, Cassandra, Josephine, Portia, Emily, Amelia
Unfortunately she is one of those cousins that would tell everyone we chose the name cos of her daughter.. etc etc, very high maintenance and not worth the trouble... lol
I like Ruby and Imogen but have very close friends who's daughters have those names and Amelia is my niece.. :-( we have a huge family etc it's hard choosing something that goes with DD1's name aswell as that we like... hmmmm
Don't think Cassandra would work as our dogs name is Cassie... hehe

I am still thinking Zara and i like Grace but DP doesn't like it as a first name.

Thanks everyone, keep the ideas flowing, any suggestions a good one right now... get DP's butt into gear.. hehe