thanks ladies
think i might keep with Oscar.
um the DP wanted it "different" he wanted the babies name to be T-Rex yes you heard correct and there was NO WAY i was calling my kid that so he finally took to Oscar but on one condition it was spelt "different" firstly it was Oska and now is Oscaar.
i dont want to make him feel pushed aside so if it means keeping him happy im quite alright to have the dragged out double AA.
thanks for all the opinions.
i had a hospital appoitment yesterday and was told his head is down, so not long now eekk, was also told to start thinking about a hospital bag reality really hit! im going to be a mum in a few weeks.