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  1. #1
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    Jan 2010
    Shoe Heaven
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    If it is relevant to your faith, then go for it. If you're just choosing it for the sake of it, then nope.

    You have to also think if she is going to a secular school, will she be teased because of her name?

  2. #2
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    Sep 2007
    Brisbane
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    If it is relevant to your faith, then go for it. If you're just choosing it for the sake of it, then nope.

    You have to also think if she is going to a secular school, will she be teased because of her name?
    Esther (Hadassah) was an awesome woman in the OT who saved the Jews. She had great courage. So yes it is important to me.

    In what way can Hadassah the name be picked on? Lay it out for me I am sometimes dense lol.

  3. #3
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    Jan 2010
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    It is a beautiful name, with a beautiful meaning behind it and is relevant to your faith.

    Moreso because it is not perceived as a "normal" name, also think of ways it could be pronounced and if any not-nice words can be made out of it. Can't think of any right now.

  4. #4

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
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    Maybe it could sound like Hard Ass? But the thing about bullying is that if bullying is tolerated they will find something to pick on. If it's not the name it is the voice, clothes, accent, walk, glasses.... If bullying isn't tolerated then no matter what you name is it won't be picked on because the potential bullies know they won't get away with it.

  5. #5
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    Sep 2007
    Brisbane
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    Thanks for your honest input, I appreciate it. So far we have Hadassah Faith and Joshua Moshe.

  6. #6
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    Nov 2009
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    I would be surprised if she was picked on for the name Hadassah. I wasn't keen when you first posted it but I have very much come round to it now. Kids are used to so many unusual names nowadays they will probably not even realise Hadassah isn't a common name. The bottom line is, if you love it, then go for it

  7. #7
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    Nov 2009
    Vic
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    No, sorry. Not really a name I can connect with. I like Hannah and Faith though.

  8. #8
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    Feb 2008
    Gold Coast, QLD
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    I like it, because it's a real name with meaning and history. There's nothing wrong with it. Maybe most people here aren't used to Hebrew names, but it wouldn't be a problem in another parts of the world.

    I can't stand all the revolting names people make up for their kids these days, just random letters strung together in some kind of unpleasant sound... But I digress.

    Go for it.

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  9. #9
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    Sep 2007
    Brisbane
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    Thanks!

    A little background... all our girls will have virtuous middle names. DD1's middle name is Gr@ce, and if we have a DD2, I want it to be F@ith. DD1's first name is X@nthe, so I want something similarly "odd", so that it's not the case that one child has a very common name, and the other doesn't.


  10. #10
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    Oct 2007
    Brissy
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    I love the name Hadassah! Have you read the Francine Rivers books with Hadassah being one of the characters?

    I have a friend who named her little one Hosannah

    Lovely to see you back BTW!

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