Thank you so much ladies, i really needed that!
Its a name we've both liked for so long, but that dream last night made me think twice

Feeb - don't be sorry, i asked for honesty! And i really appreciate it
Marydean - Nyah - think of Myer (the department store) but with an "N". Its really the only name we've found that seems to 'flow' well with our last name. If any of you ladies have any other suggestions i'm all ears
Talia - Yep! I think I would shorten it to "Ari". DH doesn't like this idea, he likes the whole name together, haha - but i think Ari is a cute shortened version.
MiniMax - I love Madeleine! But my cousin has a Maddison, who gets called Maddy, and i don't want something too similar - good choice!!
Poopie - Is your cousins daughter pronounced the same aswell??? Does she have problems with people pronouncing it incorrectly??
BethnSarah - don't feel rude for not likeing Eloise, haha - i asked for honesty, and i appreciate your opinion!
BethnSarah, Manhattan & Snugglybean - Thank you for saying Arielle and Kaili "fit" together Made me smile!
Eluned - Great choice! hahaha. Would you pronounce it the same way? The only thing that worries me slightly is people would call her "air- ree - elle" - but its not concerning enough to turn me off the name.

After all of this, It's probably a boy! hahaha