Never tell people what you plan to call your child... they will generally use the opportunity to be critical... if you keep it a secret until afterwards you won't hear anything negative unless they are prepared to be called rude! People used to ask me what I planned on calling my children but I refused, saying that I had heard too many stories of people being critical and you can NEVER please everyone so it's not worth it. It annoyed my mum I think but stuff it... I am glad I held firm.