DH hated all the names i liked for a boy with DS1.. we had names picked out by 16weeks i think Declan for a boy or Chelsea for a girl.. with DD we had Nate for a boy or Maddison for a girl.. this time around i already no im getting another DS yet we have NO names nor any desire to hurry up & choose one.. i have names i like & he has names he likes but we just can't agree but all the kids have had middle names before we knew what we were having or had even concieved