So So Frustrated at the name game with 7 days to go!!!

**Cocolove** · October 10th, 2012, 02:04 PM

We cannot agree on a name, not one, we did have one picked but something made me change my mind.

I have one picked that im super totally madly in love with, he isnt against it BUT thinks thats its just a bit out there and that he will get picked on at school, its nothing that crazy not in my mind anyway I have heard way way worse at my daughters school so I dont see the issue.

With DS we agreed on one name and one name only hence why he got it lol. Dh has chosen DD2 and DS's name so my argument is its my turn right? Am I right or am I being selfish?

So my horrible evil plan is to get him when hes emotional then he might let me call this baby what I want to call him, how nasty is that?

Im booked in for my ceaser next Wednesday and im getting terribly annoyed at not having a name!!

**Dollyroux** · October 10th, 2012, 03:00 PM

My mum has always said that the minute the baby arrives you look up at your husband and say "darling, I want to call him X" and they can't say know. Maybe cry a little bit too.

I'm not recommending this per we just sharing my mothers message LOL!

**Dollyroux** · October 10th, 2012, 03:00 PM

*no (not know!)

**Cocolove** · October 10th, 2012, 04:22 PM

bahahaha love it and it was my evil plan all along :/

His most recent statement was "you call him what you want but when he comes home from school and says the kids are picking on his name im gonna blame you"

So thats a yes right?

**Joeve** · October 10th, 2012, 04:27 PM

Lol love your plan think I will be following the same plan x

**Cocolove** · October 10th, 2012, 04:29 PM

lol, we picked Oliver at 18 weeks then I woke up one day and just didnt like it, its my last baby ever, I want something "different"

**MrsFabuloso** · October 10th, 2012, 05:05 PM

How about C aelan (lol, my DS2's name)

different, but not too out there. Or L iam is pretty awesome too, not different, but lovely all the same(DS1).

What kind of names do you want?

**Cocolove** · October 10th, 2012, 05:56 PM

How about C aelan (lol, my DS2's name)

different, but not too out there. Or L iam is pretty awesome too, not different, but lovely all the same(DS1).

What kind of names do you want?

I actually quite love both of those but a family member a Calem so too close for that one & the other is pretty popular here!!

**Rowellen** · October 11th, 2012, 09:15 AM

Good plan IMO. Too right it's your turn. Good luck with your c/s.

**Blondie** · October 11th, 2012, 09:35 AM

I'm all for manipulation in some instances - this being one of them

**Mummy&Daddy2Be** · October 11th, 2012, 12:32 PM

funny!! do you think your DH is right in some-way that the name might be targeted for getting picked on though?

**Cocolove** · October 11th, 2012, 01:41 PM

funny!! do you think your DH is right in some-way that the name might be targeted for getting picked on though?

Nope not in the slightest!!!

**Blondie** · October 11th, 2012, 02:43 PM

Now I want to know what the name is.......TELLLLLL!

Joking! You don't have to, but it might help if a few other people hear it, then tell you what they think (not that you should really care) but just so then you can tell your DH for certain that it's all in his head

We called our son Aidan and someone said to me, "Oh the worst he'll get is GAY-DEN"

WTH? I hadn't even thought of it, but it didn't put me off.....what kind of Lame-o would call someone that? Your DH is probably just needing reassurance....naming Boys can be hard.

**Cocolove** · October 11th, 2012, 04:12 PM

I so want to share, but there is someone on here i know IRL and then it wont be a surprise for her

**~clover~** · October 11th, 2012, 04:22 PM

My mum has always said that the minute the baby arrives you look up at your husband and say "darling, I want to call him X" and they can't say know. Maybe cry a little bit too.

I'm not recommending this per we just sharing my mothers message LOL!

I tried this... failed.

My DS is Jesse, I wanted Kobi. In case you're after suggestions

***LittleMissSummer*** · October 11th, 2012, 04:51 PM

I find boys the worst to find a name for.

Our DS's name (Oscar) is the only name we agreed on other than Ayrton which i worried people would think he was saying Anton and i know myself how frustrating it is when people don't get your name right.

But we got all sorts of comments, people said "he will get called Oscar the grouch" and i just said back "that's fine! i hope he is a grouch!" and yeah well he is so it suits!!

I've had a mchn say that its a hippy name...uhh wth!? but a lot of the oldies love it especially since we kept the traditional spelling.

I'm sure whatever name you have picked out is perfect