thanks so much loverlies

Yeah open to other middle name suggestions. those were just the 'family' names we had liked as possibilities for whatever name we go with.

Janie - yeah i thought of the CEO thing but figured I could handle a daughter who is a CEO! strong, successful, RICH! LOL.

Pandora - Funny you say KALI cos DH said he knew a KALI and it was pronounced car-lee... but i said i'd pronounce it cah-lee iykwim.

I like some of the alternative spellings too