"We" don't discuss names at all. I'm a bit of a control freak so like to have everything planned ahead of time, even if that's only going as far as having two or even three on a definitive short list. My DH is a serious non-planner and doesn't believe you can even consider names until after you see the baby. He never likes what I like so its difficult and frustrating. I have a feeling this baby could be nameless for some time - the thought of which drives me a wee bit nuts.