would you call your daughter - -

[luna moth]

No. But that is not because I don't think it "belongs" on a girl, just because it is just not my style, as a name. For either gender. I don't know why.

But if the question were "should *you* call your daughter Hayden?" then I would say absolutely, yes, you should, because it is cute and different, and you like it.

I know a guy who has two girls called Jaden and Ronin. They are delightful.

[MummaBee]

I love it, i would definatly use it and whatever you name your beautiful bundle it will suit it. Best of luck convincing that husband

[diva det]

i love it
actually i like it better as a girls name than for a boy
it challenges peoples perception of a person that they may associate with a persons name
we all do it
for instance when you hear a certain name you automatically build a picture of how that person would look before you meet them

with unisex names people have to rethink their perception when they meet the person as their perception will be all wrong as their gender assumption will be wrong!!
hope that is not too confusing
but i say- if you like it- then do it!!!!!