Thanks everyone for your help.

A lovely BB member sent me the Meh Tai ABA sling to try out and it wasn't for us. Not enough padding in the shoulder straps and they aren't wide enough for comfort.... my shoulders ached within 2mins of putting it on.....and DD cried in it!

Today we ordered an Ergo Baby Carrier after hearing and reading many great reviews about them and I can't wait to get it

Goodbye to my HAB.... not for me.