thanks for your tips suse. well DD doesnt seem to have a problem with her legs spread its more that i think it looks uncomfortable and was wondering if it was ok for her little body to be in that position. we went to the markets yesterday and she slept pretty much the whole time in there so i guess she is comfy, it just seems awkward to me. LOL

i tried tucking her legs in friggt style but she kept trying to stretch them out and it just wasnt working for us. LOL. (even though you arent supposed to do it)