Saram, Nothing is comfortable to go vaccuuming in.... Vaccuuming just isn't meant to be comfortable, I think
Nadine, I think whichever fabric or carrier you end up buying, you will get warm. Most of the heat comes form the close contact between you and your bub. If you do end up going for a mesh type material, there are 3 things to think of: first, make sure it isn't a loose mesh where little fingers could get trapped. It's not the end of the world, but could prove annoying. Secondly, again, about how tight the mesh is. cause some meshes can really dig into your or bubs skin. Ever tried to sit on one of those mesh type office chairs in a mini skirt? It hurts after a while. So make sure it is a nice soft fabric with a small holes. And lastly, Even if it is a mesh, if it is fully "plastic", it could still get sticky. Some man made products actually have fantastic breathing qualities, but others don't.
Now about ring slings, I know some women swear by them. But I personally prefer wraps or Mei Tais (although I've never used a MT) as they are worn over both shoulders and they pull bub really close to your centre of gravity which makes it very comfortable in the long run. Slings that go over only one shoulder just don't really feel all that comfortable in the long run, to me. Alright for a quick trip to the shops, but not for long term wearing.
If you do decide on a MT, then I think (from other people's feedback) going wiht one that has slightly padded or very wide straps might make them more comfortable.
Ya see, that was exactly the first thought popping into my head ... about the mesh digging into bubba's skin. I could just imagine picking bubba out and his/her little legs be all checkerdboard.
And my second thought was (re ringsling) about the kangeroo. If this bubba is a premmie too, I would like to kangaroo and tbh I don't see how you can get the bubba in an upright position near your bossom with a over-the-shoulder sling.
Thanks for the food-for-thought
I totaly forgot that my sister has a degree in clothing design and she would be able to get me some fabric cheaper, she lived in the city for about 5 years now and know all the "hot-spots" So I am waiting for her to get back from London and then we are going shopping. I think I might just get me 5m fabric and see how it works, if not ... then I'll try something else.
Mum is about to make a Mei Tei for me as well, will let you know how we go but if you want the instructions we are using just PM me hun. My material for the Mei Tei cost $25 and the pattern (according to her!) is really easy plus we can adapt it and put more/less padding in straps etc! It will be coming up to summer here too when bubby is born, so I wanted the option of the two!
You will better off with something that spreads the weight evenly. I don't like ring slings at all as it puts the weight all one side.
HAB & Mei tie's are perfect at spreading the weight across your back for more longer wear.
Oh by the way, when I made my HAB wrap, I used 2.5 meters & halfed it & I used a really strong seam & have never had an issue with it splitting, it had a name but I can't think of it now... it will come to me at some point down the track LOL
Sasa!!! Thanks babe, thing is I have this "thing" with google .. call it information overload! So even though I know doning some research is good, I tend to over do it with google , hence being stupid in trying to be smart!!
I was thinking my shoulder would be awfully sore after a session, sure if it's a premmie and bubba weighs like 1.8 when coming home ... fine, but they do tend to grow don't they
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Sasa!!! Thanks babe, thing is I have this "thing" with google .. call it information overload! So even though I know doning some research is good, I tend to over do it with google , hence being stupid in trying to be smart!!
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