Hi Steph,

I'm not sure if you're still checking this thread, but I thought I'd reply.

What is the problem you are having with the HAB? I found I had to try quite a few times to get it right, I watched the DVD a lot. The key seemed to be making sure it was tight enough, to do that you pull the shoulder pieces tight before wrapping it around your waist. Also, I'm not sure if you've tried the outward facing position now that your DD is four months, but I found that my DD preferred that one - she often complains and struggles to get loose if I have her facing inwards.

We just stuck with it until it worked - I was pretty determined. Lots of trial and error, and I'm glad we did now, as she loves it and it makes my life easier.

Hope that helps a bit.