Hi Jemima, it took me a while to get used to the HAB and the position that felt right for us, i must have watched the dvd 100 times LOL

I used to have the pocket tight so that baby felt secure and as if he was being cuddled the whole time, if we were out in public i would have both straps over his head because people would stop me and want to chat for ages otherwise.
I used to make sure his head was just above my boobs

I hope this helps