Thank you everyone for your kind words it does make me feel a bit better, although I still have a mini heart attack every now and then when I think about it!

Don't be hard on yourself willow. I only check DD's mouth after meals, if she'll let me. He's fine and you're fine (sorry about the sore nipple, I hope its not the same side that was blocked the other day)

ETA - Besides you have two sons that made it to their teens so you can't be that negligent
Hannah, thanks and no it was the other side, I am a Libran so it's all about balance I guess lol yes the other two did make it haha so maybe there's hope for DS3 yet