also i have to totally sympathise with you i hate going out with jayden he is so full on and you never know what he's goin get up to it can be totally embarresing i found if a child hit jayden i would say oh its alright jay dont worry bout it but when he done it i would go off so i guess sometimes toddlers have to sort it out but parents can be unprediactalble and ya hate the fact people are seeing what your son is doing and thinking oh look at that kid what a bugger its just a really hard thing to go through totally understand