Thanks Swoop your advice was really helpful I have been trying your suggestions and getting some really positive results! I've realised it's all about making her feel like she's in control and also keeping myself as calm as possible when things don't go so well (easier said than done!). The last 3 mornings she has eaten all of her breakfast and on two of those morning she has asked for more Amazing how small changes in my behaviour have made such a difference. I guess sometimes you just need to take a step back to re-assess the situation and get some advice from people who have been there before