bjrose - you're right on the money. I have no objections to the "buddies" at all. In fact, we own the monkey one. As soon as he has it on, he sits down and refuses to move anywhere. He makes it awfully difficult. I could end up looking like that parent I saw recently on the news. What I could do is put a skate board under his bottom, strap him to it and lead him about (JOKING!!). He loves to cuddle the monkey, but as soon as his back pack is on, it's "sit down" time. He's got it AAALLLL figured out.

Lulu - I'm pretty sure that's what he'd do as well. In fact, I'd bet my house on it!!

krissy - I like your idea. There's an air of independence and making your own decisions there. I'd like him to do that sometimes.

Ubba - everything is great - apart from the running child. You should have seen me trying to catch him when I was 42 weeks pg!!! I couldn't move, it was unbelievable.

I think the pram is the only solution. Like I said, I'm not worried about him not coming back, I'm worried that I can't see him and see who is around him. My greatest fear for my kids is other people - and I think you all know what I mean in that regard. There are people out there who think it's their right to touch you or your children. Creepy stuff.

The running in to traffic is a massive issue. I have nightmares about it. Thanks for your input.