Aaaaargh it really does do your head in some days doesn't it!!! I also try to pick my battles, in fact tonight I told DH I thought he needed to pick his battles a little more lol....like the get out of the bath one tonight, it really wasn't going to hurt to say ok you can have 2 more minutes but then you need to hop out if you still want to go and listen to some music. Then there are those days where EVERYTHING is a battle omg. But I wanted to do this, I wanted you to park the car there... (yes I'm serious lol)... ahhh deary me. I sometimes tell him that when he stops whinging about it and speaks nicely I will listen again. I find the problem is that every day it seems what worked the day before doesn't work the next day..... lol eeek! And that's why we have BELLYBELLY!!!