I don't think I would force it. If she happy with just you then maybe you could get in with her or just take her to the local pool on her own.. My 2nd son was a water baby till he fell in some water early last year and it is only now that he will get into the pool without any encouragement. I used to try and force it and he would scream and scream but I then left it and a few weeks ago he even let me put him under the water