Don't know if this is the right section? But i'll stick it here anyway! lol
Who has 2 kids and isn't planning on more? And what are your reasons for stopping at 2?
My DH and i have been talking about this since pregnant with no2 and are at a complete loss at what to do.
Having just the 2 would mean we can afford to give them more, spend more one on one time with them etc. Holidays and outings etc are always 2 adults and 2 kids.
Then theres the fact that i would love to be pregnant again, and try for that natural birth i've always wanted to experience. Hold a little newborn again.
But, i think no matter how many kids i have, i would always feel clucky and want another baby.
Another thing is DH and i really enjoy going out on "date" nights. We do this about once a fortnight, or every 3 weeks. My parents look after the girls for us. If we have another bub though, it is a big ask asking them to look after 3 kids.
It's just such a big decision!
I want us to be able to make our minds up soon because my 2 are so close in age i would want the 3rd to be close too, otherwise the first 2 will always be close and the 3rd would get left out IYKWIM.
Man, if we were rich i would just go for it, we could still afford to give them plenty, and be able to pay for a sitter! lol
I am really happy with my girls, but whenever i see a baby, or a preg belly, or hear a birth story, i wish i could do it all again.
How did you decide when to stop?
Sorry this is soo long, but it helps seeing my thoughts written down instead of floating in that big empty space! lol
Cheers!
Melissa