thank you all so much for your advice. I will be going to the doctors in the next few days to see what he thinks too. My dd had it happen again at about 10 last night. I have given her some kids laxative from the chemist. But read up a bit about constipation in kids on the net last night and think we will have to make a couple of adjustments to her diet. Get her drinkin more water and eatin more fruit I think.

I thought of the being scared of going to the toilet mooshie but she absolutely hates doing her pants and I think she is scared of going to the toilet since it hurts so much lately. And we have never really pushed the whole toilet thing just let her do it at her own pace.

Aaah dear such stress!! I worry so much that its my fault, that i am doing something wrong with her diet or the toilet training plus got a sick hubby too. Ahh well I will figure it out in the end and hopefully won't have that problem again!

Once again, THANKYOU =D> to all those who have replied with their advice it's been greatly appreciated. CHEERS!!