Thanks so much for your wonderful advice!

I think the plan is to clear out the spare room and set up the room for the baby. She will probably sleep in our room for the first little while anyway, and then we'll see how they are both sleeping. I'll probably be able to ask ds what he'd prefer by the time dd is ready to sleep in another room too. I am an only child so if they want to share when they are older I am totally fine with that, I would have loved to have some company. As long as they aren't waking each other up!

I can hear a garage sale coming...

Hi Jas!!! Wow, 3.5 month twins? Huge congratulations!!! So nice to hear from you