thanks girls.

I just feel like she "should" be in her cot coz thats where they are meant to be. Ive tried the CC.. didnt work and never ever wish to do it again as i think it did more damage to me than her and our relationship.

I can put her to sleep in there once she falls asleep on my bed but garrenteed she will wake screaming within 5 mins so i leave her on my bed so she gets more sleep IYKWIM.

Yes i am worried about the thought im never going to get my bed back because i have given into her.. if that makes sense.

And i miss mine and DP time.. no cuddles in bed coz shes always in there. SO its not doing much for our relationship.

I tried taking the side off the cot and putting it right next to the bed (thanks katones) but still didnt work.

dont know if its too late to try a bassinet.. shes nearly 60cm long.