Yep, sounds like your going great.
I found we didnt get into a routine until 3-4mths.....i pushed for one with DD#3 and TBH i ended up hating that newborn stage with her...i was stressed, she was stressed. WIth H ive just let him lead....around the 12-14 week mark i noticed he just fell into a pattern in the day and night.

Likeyou, ive tried the dreamfeeding thing too - NONE OF MY CHILDREN got the dream feeding thing. I would do it at say 10pm (after being put down at 7pm), but i would just be up again at 1130pm anyway. That rule about 'never wake a sleeping baby' i think in our household is so true.

ETA; H is still feedinig every 3-4hrs overnight...and he is 10 days off 6 mths. It sounds like your going really well.....