thanks for the reassurance anna your right about there not been bad habits!
j its funny how they find ways to settle for sleep!

well last night was horrendous, up every 90 mins, i took her to the dr because the last two times she was like this she had an ear infection, turns out she has another one!
sleep today was better, though she seems to have gone from 4 sleeps to 2 in the past few days, hoping tonight is better