I tried and tried to keep Gaby on two sleeps a day, as long as I could - but in the end she made it clear that she was only going to have one... I ended up letting her lead the way, I let her have her nap when she wanted it, and didn't try to force her to stay in bed.. as tempting as it was, lol. The good thing I found was if she had her nap early, she'd generally go to sleep earlier at night - and ended up increasing her sleep time at night... some nights she'd have 14 hours... it was bliss