Sounds like things are coming to a head for you. How many sleeps does she have in the day? Maybe she is transitioning to one less?

Will she sleep in the pram or in a sling? Or even in the car? Sometimes, its easier just to get them to have a sleep somewhere else besides their bed...

I also used to breastfeed DD IN the sling at one point, so she would concentrate and have the feed, and then put her down.

we all understand. And I second kicking your DH in the bum...people need hugs and support when they cry...babies AND and their mums!