Star you are not alone. Although I wasnt 'depressed' when I found out that I was having my second boy, I was very disapointed. Ever since I was very little I always wanted a baby girl. ALL my friends have girls and when they come over I just stare at their little pink outfits....My husband and I have decided to have another baby soon but I am petrified that it will be another boy and I dont want to feel that way. I know I would be blessed to fall pregnant with either sex, because there are so many women out there who cant have babies. But like you, I have this deep need to have my little girl. I am not saying that I dont love my little boys, because I absolutely adore them and I have been very lucky. They are just gorgeous. I have done so much research on 'how to' try for a girl and have even got books. Should I plan it this time?? I dont know....the statistics say it works and it worked for my friend who had two little boys and then a girl. But maybe it was just luck? Anyway I wish you the best of luck if you do try again. Isnt there something called Gender Selection? Its like IVF but they choose an x sperm and fertislise it in a dish....Maybe that is an option for you if you are really desperate?